Comments:

Fuzzmom - 2004-08-17 18:01:35
*hugs you* This may sound crazy, but have you considered just keeping her for now? You could have a stipulation in your wills that whichever of you predeceases the other should have your ashes saved until his or her death. Then Jasmine's ashes could be combined with yours and Jeff's, and the three of you dispersed together. My husband and I are going to have that done with our remains. Just a thought; I hope the suggestion wasn't too personal.
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LA - 2004-08-17 18:34:34
Gracious! With all that's been going on you have every right to be clingy and wanting to huddle together with ALL your loved ones, including Jasmine. Who says you have to spread her ashes? You do whatever feels right. ~LA
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cat-scratch-fever - 2004-08-17 18:55:43
You and Jeff keep Jasmine's ashes for as long as you need to. There is nothing wrong with wanting to hold on to her. *Many, many hugs and kisses* I'm so glad you're getting settled in to your new home.
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Mom - 2004-08-18 00:33:03
I go with all the above, I'am glad, this may be crazy but I go and say hi to her when I was back there in Bloomington and when I was there over the weekend. I will miss her for always. I love you and will see you soon. Love, Mom
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Heather - 2004-08-18 00:43:46
Yeah, what they said. I only wish my own situation allowed me to keep something for myself... other than paperwork and old pregnancy tests. I also understand the pang of anxiety. Since the kids have been born, I am much more timid when it comes to seperations, especially ones that require flying. But we do it, because it's life. It just doesn't mean it has to be easy. *big hugs*
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Angela - 2004-08-18 09:08:29
I miss you. I've missed you for a long time, but it's only with a recent change in my life that I've started trying to get in touch with old friends that I've been out of contact with. I am so, so saddened to learn of Jasmine's death. ::tight, tight hugs:: ~Angela
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